At Home, Elsewhere

learning how to be at home

  • Reliving the Past Differently

    Reliving the Past Differently

    Today I’m in Valbonne again. This is the third time I’m back this year, and I’m really loving it. It feels like the first time I can actually enjoy what the village has to offer. When I lived here, I was such a different person. I was so scared of everything and everyone… when I…

  • From Western Australia to the Var

    From Western Australia to the Var

    It’s been one week since I arrived in the southeast of France, and I don’t want to leave. I feel more than ever that this is my home, and I keep the idea of packing up again far from my mind. There are so many things that are the same between Australia and France when…

  • Wisdom from the Middle of the Night

    Wisdom from the Middle of the Night

    I have not been sleeping well lately. It always happens when I come here, to the south east coast of France. I wake up often in the middle of the night. Some nights I don’t sleep at all. The weather has been cool here, but I have not often worn a jacket. I feel warm…

  • Some Places Call to Us

    Some Places Call to Us

    Do you think that walls have voices? I think I’ve come to believe this. Certain locations, certain architecture and certain groups of people speak to us in gentle ways. Imagine, if a stone wall from a French medieval village had ears and a mouth… then what variety of things could it tell us? My visit…

  • Travelling the Little Way

    Travelling the Little Way

    I wrote this while sitting in the sun in Valbonne, at a café by the square. It was a little warm, but a soft cool breeze was passing by every now and then giving me relief. My feet were wet and my shoes were dirty, but I didn’t let it bother me. The sun dried…

  • Listening to the Waves

    Listening to the Waves

    The last month, I have spent a lot of time away from the sea. From the concrete towers of Taipei to the snowy Swiss hills and grassy fields of the French countryside… every time I looked out into the distance, there was never that familiar flat horizon line to be seen. Coming back to the…

  • How France Changed Me

    How France Changed Me

    Today, I planned to meet a friend for a casual coffee in Antibes… but that turned into lunch, which turned into a walk along the sea, which turned into a few glasses of wine later into the night. Some of the best moments in life are unexpected ones. We’ve known each other for a couple…

  • Living by the Sea

    Living by the Sea

    Today was a slow day for me. I feel the tiredness that has been chasing me finally catch up. Travelling by air, travelling by train… adjusting to different weather, food and time zones is all more tiring than I remember. So I gave myself permission to stay at home and move in and out of…

  • When Destinations Become Reflections

    When Destinations Become Reflections

    Today, I was walking around the town of Antibes. I’ve been there many times before, but this time I’m a totally different person and so I see it with a different perspective. Every time before, I’ve seen the beauty of the French Mediterranean style streets. What you’d expect to see when you think of the…

  • Home Finds You

    Home Finds You

    Yesterday I was so tired after my long train journey, the only thing I could do was have a bath and go to bed. I left all my suitcases open on the floor, and slept quickly. I didn’t set an alarm and I didn’t put the window shade over the door to the balcony, I…