At Home, Elsewhere

learning how to be at home

  • The Internal Journey

    The Internal Journey

    This was originally published on 6 March 2023 on my blog called The Anchor Within (theanchorwithin.blog).  I want to talk about a moment when I was in Innsbruck. In this city, I was at a point of deep confusion in my life. That point where you give up trying to do things, and all you…

  • Invisible Barriers

    Invisible Barriers

    This was originally published on 23 February 2023 on my blog called The Anchor Within (theanchorwithin.blog).  I want to tell you a story about a man I met in Slovenia. I had arrived there in January, during winter, and so it was very cold. I still remember the first morning I was there. I walked…

  • Beauty is Something We Share

    Beauty is Something We Share

    This was originally published on 13 February 2023 on my blog called The Anchor Within (theanchorwithin.blog).  I came across a Kurdish proverb recently… “A heart in love with beauty never grows old.” It reminded me of another saying I was taught in Basel one time, when I met a group of wonderful people who taught…

  • The Moment I Decided Not to Hide Anymore

    The Moment I Decided Not to Hide Anymore

    This was originally published on 20 February 2023 on my blog called The Anchor Within (theanchorwithin.blog).  I am someone who feels a lot. I can sense the emotions in a neighbourhood, and I can taste the emotions in a room. For me, they are like a strong perfume – I don’t only feel someone’s stress,…

  • Unhooking From the Past

    Unhooking From the Past

    This was originally published on 8 February 2023 on my blog called The Anchor Within (theanchorwithin.blog). Soon after I moved into an apartment in the centre of Valbonne village in France, I had a water leak in my ceiling right above where I kept my clothes. I still remember that sound at night… ugh, that…

  • Doubts are like Doors

    Doubts are like Doors

    This was originally published on 16 February 2023 on my blog called The Anchor Within (theanchorwithin.blog) I want to tell you a story about an experience I had in Ireland. When I ended up in a place I didn’t really want to be… haven’t we all felt that way sometimes? I had just received my…

  • My Love Letter to Valbonne

    My Love Letter to Valbonne

    This was originally published in February 2023 on my blog called The Anchor Within (theanchorwithin.blog) In the middle of the pandemic in August 2020, I left my life in Singapore… where I had stability, love and comfort… so I could have an adventure in Europe. I didn’t know where, but I really did not want…

  • Change is Coming…

    Change is Coming…

    I have been a little quiet these days, because I’ve been busy with other things but I am still here – and I have something exciting coming up! I need to wait about two weeks before I tell you, but don’t worry. I have something more to share with you in the mean time. Every…

  • Owning Your Journey

    Owning Your Journey

    Recently I have taken a step towards my new life, and it tired me out a little bit. That’s why I haven’t been writing. But sometimes we need to do these things. Although I’m a person who doesn’t really like to work too hard, it’s my habit and so it has taken me a while…

  • At Home, Elsewhere

    At Home, Elsewhere

    And so on the final day of July, I share with you the beginning of my story. I wondered whether to still do it or not. A lot of things have changed in my life since I started this blog, and I am not afraid to change my mind. But something within me knows that…